I love sex with my current girlfriend, but a problem I've always had is that I always have to be more active than my partner. Maybe I'm just extremely unlucky with partners, but every girl I've slept with hasn't been too into taking the lead.
I'm not talking about tying me down & pulling out whips & chains, just simple little things like changing position or commencing with oral. Such things only happen because I make them happen.
It's always been that way and I'm pretty much over it. I really have the impression that if I don't do anything, then nothing will happen...
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