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I'm not crazy about clubbing. It's all what you make of it though. If your friends are willing to do the things that you enjoy it sure can't hurt to try what they enjoy at least once. Ask your friends what they like most about it. Just ask them each to tell you one thing. That can at least show them you have an interest in doing things they enjoy. Go once and see how you like it.
For me clubbing is all about flirting. Actually I guess I'm kindof mean as I've gone with hubby and another couple we know that are swinger friends. The last time we went my girl and I were kindof showing off so that some guys at the bar could see. We were bending over in such a way as to give a good view with our low cut shirts or low skirts. Hubby's were just laughing at how those guys couldn't take their eyes off us girls. She and I had arms around each other - all "friendly". The guys at the bar - their eyes were popping and one had a girlfriend that stormed out. We were mean I guess. It was fun goofing off with our friends. Otherwise it's not something we just HAVE to do every week. I think the last time we went to a club was about 8 or 9 months ago. Partly we have better things to do, not interested in drinking alcohol, hangovers interfere with our lives the next day, and we're so busy that R&R to us is a QUIET evening out or at home. The smoking clubs are nasty too cause the air is miserable to breath and we both have mild asthma. Though in this are they're loosing popularity.
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