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I wouldn't read too much into this AIM stuff. There may have been something big going on or maybe she's trying to make you sweat. I'd suggest only talking to her on that for a couple minutes at a time and only to tell her what you're up to.
Set up a social situation with friends that is fun and interesting and then let her know where it is and invite her to come by. If she shows up, it's a good sign.
Just don't "try too hard", which I still do on occasion even after having plenty of relationships. Trying too hard is giving them flowers or compliments and trying to please them at any given moment. Let them know you're interested but don't go overboard. Talk to other girls while she's around as well rather than focusing just on her etc...
Women are just as nervous about this stuff as you. Just take it slow.
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