After writing this, I noticed none of the paragraphs are really connected. Apologies.
Well, it's obviously one more thing to be addicted to. There are very few things people
can't become addicted to. Is anyone actually surprised by this?
Relationships are the single most important thing to humans. Don't try to argue; it's a fact. We wouldn't exist if it weren't true. Because of this, they become a little big to handle. I've had two great girlfriends, 4 and 2 years respectively, but I didn't ask either one on a date. I was scared to death to, and I still am. Internet girls can't say no. The appeal is simply undeniable.
While I'm in a very sexually satisfying relationship, I still look at porn. It's not a replacement for real intimacy. It's just something different. I like to try lots of different kinds of ice cream, but cookies n cream is still my favorite. I also like to share my ice cream. It usually tastes better that way.
Some guys watch porn because they feel inadequate. Some girls are afraid of guys watching porn -
because they feel inadequate. Does this make sense to ANYONE? Both sides of the relationship are fucked up because they're too afraid to talk to each other. The problem is not porn. The problem is people.
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“I think it will be really rare, and hopefully it will happen, that I can meet a guy who will be happy with only me.”
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She later added, "so I can control every aspect of his life." If you can't recognize that people are curious by their nature, you're in for a long ride. I think this quote was a terrible end to an article that might have been insightful, otherwise. It suggests to you that the only possible way a person can be healthy is to never look at pornography. If you even look at it, and you're not disgusted by it, you're a bad person. Yeah, ok Inquisitor Torquemada.