well, I stumble upon a book called Cheaters sometime back. it's writen my a pi who follows people who may be cheating on their SOs. One thing he states that all cheaters have in common is that they would rather cheat than end the relationship. You've heard it before, how he/she cheated, and yet doesn't want to break up either. That's what he means and sees it all the time.
If your going to start snooping around, try planting a voice activated tape recorder in her car or at her place. Make sure it's silent enough for the job, and pick it up later.
If it turns out to be nothing, plan something special, like a weekend getaway.
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"I don't know that I ever wanted greatness, on its own. It seems rather like wanting to be an engineer, rather than wanting to design something - or wanting to be a writer, rather than wanting to write. It should be a by-product, not a thing in itself. Otherwise, it's just an ego trip."
Roger Zelazny
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