There are all sorts of things that people tell you to do and not do in these situations. One thing that having a little life experience has told me is that many things happen for a reason. If you are true to yourself and your beliefs and act natural, it will either work out or it won't. There are too many things in life to get hung up over the exact move to make or the right/wrong thing to say. I was in fucked up relationship after fucked up relationship until I basically accidentally met my wife. We had one of those 4 or 5 hour talk sessions on our 2nd data that sealed the deal for me. The relationship was never hard. Good luck with this and hopefuly it will work out like it is meant to.
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