j8ear

I agree completely. I do. My point is that their is only one ideal and anything less then the ideal is harmful. Especially since the "ideal" is required in the first place.

I don't want to minimize the potential or capability of those situations which are not ideal...I instead want to point ot that only the ideal is, well, ideal...and the rest are therefore less then ideal, and neccessarily harmful.

Lets not confuse harmful with damaging. But let's at least come to grips with the reality that less then ideal is harmful, so we can be aware of the harm and mitigate it's consequences.

\Not in anyway intending to flame,/

-bear

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