tell her to pick the other guy and just get over her. its not worth it to pursue a serious relationship with her or investing your trust and feelings into her, if thats what you're looking to do. if its not what you're looking for, do whatever you like.
she told you she's trying to decide between you and the other guy.
a) she's playing games with either you or the other guy. she's trying to make someone jealous or she just likes attention. do you really want to get involved with someone who plays these kinds of games?
2) she's not mature enough to deal with this properly, publicly stringing both of you guys along until she makes her decision. this should be an indication of her personality and i could almost guarantee this wouldn't be a relationship that would last or end well.
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This is what is hardest: to close the open hand because one loves.
Nietzsche
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