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Old 06-16-2005, 11:13 AM   #17 (permalink)
Gilda
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Originally Posted by ratbastid
Actually, your original post told me the only pieces I haven't been sure about: terminology. I've never really know how to refer to transsexuals in a way that is appropriate and sensitive, but your post gave me all that. Thanks!
Most of the time the best way is as their desired sex. Sissy prefers to be called a girl (or woman), she, her. The use of MTF or transwoman should be reserved for when you need to distiguish between a transsexual woman and a natal (natural born) woman.

This does bring up an interesting point, though. Most transsexuals I know refer to themselves when first transitioning as girls regardless of age. And without exception they tend to call their female voice their "girl voice". I think it's because most of the time they never got to be a girl, so, linguisticallly anyway, they go through a period of being a girl before they become a woman.
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