I've wasted plenty of time and money in clubs but, I did have a bit of fun.
I don't think I ever picked up a girl in a club now that I think about it. It's always better to go with a group of friends that include a few new girls that want to check you out. It's the after-clubbing parties where all the real action is, if you like to sleep around etc...
Dancing is easy. Just move to the music. If you are self-conscious, lead your partner by the hand to whichever side is not on public display. Copy her moves and you might even move in sync but this is *yet another* situation where you don't want to think too much. Then it gets awkward.
One key point I'll make is to give everyone something funny to talk after your clubbing experience. Fall off your chair when a girl goes by or even dance on the table for a couple seconds. Girls especially want something to talk about and if you can make this a funny or sexy thing, it's a good thing.
DO NOT be the quiet guy waiting for something to happen. After all my years, I still do this on occasion and it's something to avoid. Even making an ass of yourself is better than being a wallflower as your friends try to draw you out.
My best clubbing experience was when I used to go to the same club almost everynight for a few months and dance with almost every girl in the place. I really was just interested in dancing, so I rarely got turned down and I met lots of people.
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