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Originally Posted by James Dean
Only the gentle are ever really strong.
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The Rebel I think had a pretty good handle on what attracted women, I think. Anyway...
I have to agree with maleficient on this. I've no trouble with women and I'm not a mean guy by any indication. Granted I have a bit of a chip on my shoulder, but I don't qualify that as being mean.
I've also had no problem attracting other women. I think what it takes is more confidence than anythign else, something I have in spades. I know who I am, I know my strengths and weaknesses and I have no problem in believing I can do something. If you're sure enough about something the other party will buy into it too. It's true in sales and also in dating, except in dating the thing you need to be sure about is yourself.
Or that's my experience, anyway. It's worked for me.
EDIT - Gotta love the quoting system here. I had no idea James Dean hung out at TFP.