I like to appreciate the beauty in anyone, male or female. My S/O have historically been guys, yet my fantasies have almost always involved women. Although I have been attracted to a few women, I have never acted on the attraction. Well, almost never . . . I have a friend who gets very flirtatious and loves to touch me when she drinks, and, well, let's just say I don't push her away
One of my good friends asked me for my "top five list;" he describes the list as the top five famous people I would like to be with. I had to think about it, but my list currently has two guys and three women.
My guy and I have discussed and are open to welcoming another person into our lives . . . wow, until this moment, amonkie was the only other living soul I'd told.
My feeling about sexuality in general . . . love is love, sex is sex, whether it be men with men or women with women or a combination. IMO, one form is no better than another. When love or joy are found, it is no one else's business but the people involved, KWIM?