I'd definately approach her first off.
Don't go in all fire and brimstone either. Ask her if the stories you have been hearing she's telling are true? "Are you calling me an abuser? Why?"
Ask her nicely to stop.
If she is going around accusing you of illegal activites (IE: domestic abuse) you have legal routes to deal with that (slander or libel, i forget which), but if I were you, that would be a last resort.
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