I am wondering about the part where you say "He takes himself very seriously". Is this like a pride kinda way?
I'm only wondering because of the 'over-reaction'... was it due to his embarrassment, a perceived failing or weakness on his part? And do you know much about why his first marriage failed?
These are just the sort of things that I would try to find out. When you can pin-point where these actions come from, it may help with your decision to 'work through' or walk away.
I admire your ability to look after yourself. All the best...
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