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After 5 years of marriage we just had our first child in March. I already can't imagine life without him, and plan to have more in the future. We are financially ok and can afford to have another. Yet I can't understand why people who choose not to have children starts such a debate. Ive seen threads like this before, and have heard it discussed before.
So what if someone doesn't want to have kids? There are to many people having kids that don't want them in the first place. Who suffers from that? The children. If someone says they don't want kids who's place is it to look down on them. I would rather see people who don't want them make sure they don't have them.
Besides you don't marry someone just because you want children. You marry that person because your in love and can't imagine life without them there. Or at least that's why I did anyway!
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