Depends on how much I care about the girl. If I'm just trying to hook up and my friend needs me then I'm there for him. If I'm in a committed relationship though it'd have to be both. I've also noticed I can't be friends with girls because either they eventually crush on me and I hurt their feelings or the other way around and that sucks

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I've managed to have one or two good girlfriends in real life though but one was quite fond of me and when I told her "just friends" I know it hurt her but then she embraced the idea and we became good friends. Distance has kind of killed the relationship though. I haven't talked to her in forever. I should get back in touch.
Asta!!