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I have found it counterproductive to expend the time and energy required to help someone, on those who continuously question the motive, it becomes insulting at some point.
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I agree with this statement. I've tried hard to help people who pushed me away and I ended up looking like the bad guy.
The original posters comment that "no one does anything for nothing" sounds like something that's been learned from past experiences. Maybe this guy knows about those past experiences and is trying to help you work past them? Trying to help you be able to trust again?