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Originally Posted by cierah
My definition of this being a 'relationship'. He is just a friend. I used to have a thing for him and told him so. He now treats me like 'one of the boys' which I totally dig. I could understand if he was being nice to get into my pants but he really isn't. That's a motive I could understand but just being 'nice' - I don't understand.
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I understand the relationship Idea....and Love does not entail sex.
Perhaps clarification is in order:
Love is simply a blanket word explaining an attachment beyond the norm, something that draws you to another person/thing, and can create need of one kind or another. If indeed you cannot fathom the concept of someone simply deciding to live life with kindness as the guiding force, I hope as time passes you can. But, I will point out a catch 22. I have found it counterproductive to expend the time and energy required to help someone, on those who continuously question the motive, it becomes insulting at some point.
Good luck on this.