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I've been in the position of that nice guy before. There was a girl a while back while I was in school who I thought I was becoming pretty good friends with (honestly, I did have a relationship in mind but I don't concentrate on that or even bring it up until way down the road). She always brought up how nice I was to her, and wondered why on earth somebody would be so nice. She couldn't understand, and said even if I did 'like like' her that theres no reason I should be so nice.
Then one day I guess she had had enough, and turned into a major bitch. She would do stuff like give me the finger or yell something rude at me when we passed eachother in the halls. She spread some rumors about me among her friends. We had talked online before that, and she blocked my screen name. On a regular basis she would unblock me and shout something rude at me before blocking me again. I gave up trying to talk to her (obviously).
The strange thing is, about a year after that she came back to me and wanted to be friends again. I'm an extremely forgiving guy and have a hard time holding a grudge against anybody. So me being such a nice guy, forgave her for everythign and resumed where we left off. We still talk every once in a while to this day.
Probably the weirdest "relationship" i've had in my life.
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