Originally Posted by Axiom_e

My two cents.
I used to be uncomfortable and worried about making my girlfriends come, but I have come up with a way that works for me or at least makes me feel like I have done something.

After she has "cum"ed gently caress the sensitive parts of her body. You should get some type of involuntary reaction from her. Ex. Gently kiss the back of her neck and she will either push towards or pull away. Caress her thighes or ass gently and she will move. Compare how she moves when you caress her during foreplay and how she moves after she has orgasmed.

Another suggestion would be to ask later like the next day, but don't ask too much or you will annoy her. Don't ask right after at least wait an hour or two let her finish enjoying the feeling and you should be enjoying your.

In my opinion the best thing in the world is when you make your girl cum so hard she tells you that she just going to relax for a minute and start up again, but she falls asleep curled up in the fetal position protecting her sensitive bits. How fitting is it for the girl to fall asleep instead of the guy. For me that is when I know that she has had a Big O.