I will agree. I haven't dealt with addiction but I have dealt with other suicidal persons and those with drinking problems. As far as you know she would have drained you emotionally, physically, and/or financially until you were no longer able to help her whether you wanted to or not. You did your part and what YOU were able to handle at that point. Some people may be equipped emotionally to deal with these type of situations better but other's just aren't able to extend themselves as much without causing themselves harm. I hope she can get herself straightened out eventually. Don't feel bad for leaving her to her own devices. She has to know that you did all that you personally could. If she doesn't realize it now she may someday understand.
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