I think that you might expect too much out of him. You're being really defensive on this forum about why you feel you need this attention which has me wondering a bit. I don't understand why you're getting married if there is a problem such as this, which can turn into something huge. My husband's not a sentimental/romantic guy, but then again I knew that when I married him and I don't expect compliments all of the time. I'm secure enough in myself to know what I am and who I am.
My point is this: Don't rely on others to assure you in who you are. Rely on yourself.
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