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I don't think control & skill in maneuvering the vehicle and good (safe, defensive) judgement should be mutually exclusive in defining good driving. I have to see someone demonstrate both before I really trust them behind the wheel... and I can count all the people I trust behind the wheel on one hand. Sounds like you and Grace make one good driver together.

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