Sage

Man, start some new things! You've been in one place in your life for a while now (with the same girl) and now the wonderful Universe has shown you what a bad idea it would have been to have stayed with this girl. So, take a deep breath, and realize that now is your time to grow as a person. Yeah, it's going to hurt sometimes, but that will quickly be allieveated by the knowledge that this girl obviously didn't love you or respect you like you thought. That hurts, but it's easier to get over that (IMHO) than someone just falling out of love with you for no particular reason. SO, buck up, go have some fun with your buddies, exercise (or find a new hobby), and let everything flow naturally. If you still feel wierd after about a week or so, go talk to a counselor (different than a thearapist), because they're really really good at suggesting courses of action for you to take that will help you recharge yourself mentally. Good luck

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