I couldn't care less if my fiancee went to every strip club in town. I wouldn't even mind if he got dances. I would not, however, want him to get stumbling drunk and spend the next day hung-over--that is, to my mind, far more destructive than a nice visual experience.
Of course, I'm not on the same board as your friends--if he spent 2 month's salary I would be furious--if he wants to spend several thousand dollars, get me something useful like a new computer and a puppy!!!
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