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Originally Posted by xjumper84
I feel like the ultimatum would be a good idea.. but its all on me. and i don't want to lose her as a friend. Shes told me a few times over that she just wants to be friends.. and i've somehow got it in my head that we should be more.
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This has happened to me. I've decided in my case that the reason I didn't want to lose her as a friend was because I wanted to stay close to her -- ie, keep the hope alive that we might end up being more than friends. It never happened it just screwed with my mind. And from what I've heard of other people's experience, it never happened for them either.
I second the ultimatum idea: tell her how you feel, and if she doesn't want to be more than friends, cut her loose and find someone who does.