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Originally Posted by ShaniFaye
Ok, so Im on a wedding board full of "oh my e-ring better be at LEAST two months salary or I will make him give me another one" and "I'd better get at least 100 bucks per person as a wedding gift or I will be really insulted" and "why cant every body do what I want them to do, when/how I want them to do it...it's MYYYYY day an I wont compromise" kind of people.
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The third comment makes me roll my eyes, the second one makes my brain hurt, and the first one makes me want to slap someone for being a snobby bitch.
I have no intention of getting married because I see it as an archaic tradition, etc, but that's not what I want to discuss here. If I do end up finding someone who I'm willing to agree to be with for the rest of my life (unlikely, as I don't think that humans are biologically programmed to do that,) I'll get a marriage license, get a prenup signed (not an optimist) and have a friend who I can trust to keep their mouth shut go to one of those websites taht ordain you over the internet and get the proper credentials to perform the ceremony. There will be exactly three people there, and after the wedding, everyone will hear that we had a small, private ceremony and we wanted to keep it secret. If I find someone who's a perfect enough match for me to marry, that's all she'll want, too.