Originally Posted by Hash_Browns

First of all, it wasn't just you in that room that put those thoughts in your head, she was there too. But she has come to terms with it, and you haven't. What you could do is take that night and change it in your mind. find another female, make it her face you see and put all the love into it. I know it sounds corny, but it's a distraction. This probibly won't work either tho...your best bet is to tell her flat out how you feel and if she can't handle it, then it really is her problem and it gives you the chance to move on. From the sounds of it tho, you've been down that road also, and she's stated her position so I don't know what more to say except good luck...