My SO and I have talked about it. He told me that all he wants is a soda and movie night with the guys. While it may change when he actually has a party, I don't care if he goes to a club or the guys hire a stripper, so long as he comes home to me afterward. And we both know and accept that my friends will plan something off the wall for me. I'm fine with whatever happens (assuming there is not sex with strippers, as Shani said) so long as we can tell each other about it afterwards. Call it a bonding experience.
I really like how lots of people have thrown the "one last fling" mentality out the window. There's no point in getting married if one feels the need to have a wild night before settling down.
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