Quote:
|
Originally Posted by maleficent
Idon't think it's disrespectful to fake -- sometimes it's ego-preservation on the part of the person who's doing the faking... Until you've ever heard -- "what's the matter with you why can't you orgasm" Faking is just a lot easier.
|
While I can appreciate that position, I still maintain that in any meaningful relationship I am in I do not want or need the woman to fake... I'd rather I knew it hadn't happened.
To me it's disrespectful because it means you aren't being honest with me.
On the flips side, if I'm not satisfying you and you aren't telling me... then it ceases to be my problem that you aren't getting satisfaction (i.e. if you are faking me out then how am I supposed to know?).
That said, I agree with this:
Quote:
|
Originally Posted by maleficent
Sex is not about the destination... it's about the journey-- you reacha certain age and an orgasm is not the be all and end all of the universe.
|
There have been may times where I have had sex and not had an orgasm... but still enjoyed myself.