I'd be fine with it if he wanted to go to a strip club for an evening. I agree with Shani when she says "not the night before" but I'm okay with strip clubs, as long as it doesn't become habitual. To be honest, we're talking about going to a strip club for
my 19th. You know, just to say that we did. (Imagine telling your kids "for my 19th birthday mommy's boyfriend took mommy to see naked ladies dance!)
I'd rather just not have the pre-party, and save all of the money for the after party. Tell the guys that instead of taking you out to see naked ladies that they can chip in to pay for the open bar!
