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I'm male, and here's my take. I am recently divorced, but when I got married, I had a bachelor party. Not really so much because I wanted it, but because my friends wanted an excuse to go to the strip joint. I agree completely with the previous poster who said they are not interested in watching naked women pretend to be interested in them just so they can empty my wallet.
If I ever get married again, I would like to have a bachelor party. But it will not involve a strip club, mostly because they do absolutely nothing for me. Trust me, I love naked women, but I really don't need the act of looking at naked women turning into a business transaction...this is what removes all fun from stip clubs for me.
My next bachelor party will be something like a long weekend in Chicago, golfing and going to a Cubs game, or spending a week in Colorado hanging out in a resort somewhere. Or maybe a week long fishing trip to Canada. Of course there will be some booze and some fun. But I want something classier than stuffing dollar bills into some crack whore's g-string. I want a bachelor party that can be the kind of thing I can still do with the guys AFTER I'm married.
Bachelor parties don't have to be bad. They can be a chance for guys to bond and just hang out and be guys, like "they used to do".
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