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Originally Posted by Redlemon
OK, I may be a dork, but I see absolutely no appeal in going to a strip club. I'm not interested in watching women pretend to be interested in me so that they can empty my wallet. Also, I don't see "one last fling" as an appropriate thing to do; either you are ready to settle down, or you aren't.
I didn't have a bachelor party. After the rehearsal dinner, I just hung out with whoever else was in the hotel where I was staying. I don't feel like I missed anything. The closest to a traditional bachelor party that I attended was a bunch of guys in a room, watching porn and drinking. That was pretty stupid and lame.
All that aside: I trust my SO to stay within the relationship boundaries that we have established. If she wanted to hit a strip club with the girls, she could.
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I'm going to have to agree with what redlemon said here. and echo his sentiments.
my husband's bacholar party was as exciting as going to the movies and getting some burgers with his best man. and i just had a girly movie night with my friends . . .
I really don't understand the whole need to see someone else naked as a way to celebrate a wedding, it just seems cheap to me and unnessasary.
If my SO had wanted to do that for his bacholar party and wanted to employ a stripper, i wouldn't have been marrying him anyway because he would be a completely different person than he is.
but as far as what i think for other people . . . as long as a couple communicates about what they feel is appropriate, people can do whatever they want, anything goes in my book as long as they are respecting whatever boundaries they and their partner have set.
In other words . . . rock on shani
Sweetpea