I had my bachelor party two weeks and a day ago, and had quite a bit of this drama there.
With my groomsmen it was pretty obvious that there would be a stripper, and my Wife wasnt too pleased by that fact. We were due to get married two days later to me spending the night with strippers when we were so close to getting married didnt sit to well. Not exactly a shocking revelation there. I didnt end up feeling too much heat on the subject though, since my groomsmen took the route of "you dont have any say in whatever we're planning". She ended up pissed at them for a while though
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And honestly, I guess it depends on the groom, but I wasnt very interested in having strippers at my bachelor party either. As Redlemon said, I'm not really interested in women pretending to be interested in me. Especially two days from my wedding, when I would have much perferred to be staying home with my fiancee where the interest is real (and can lead to a lot more fun
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I guess it showed in the end, because one of the strippers eventually asked me "what was going on down there?". Hah. I wasnt into it at all, just the whole idea of it seemed pretty stupid. It wasnt just me either, pretty much everyone there except my bestman is in a long term relationship, so desipte the hollaring and crazy antics, no one seemed all that interested. Dumb tradition if you ask me.