Heh, I pity those men marrying that kind of women, though I think a lot of what women do with this kind of thing is what they are expected to do. They are taught you need to be jealous and he should only have eyes for you etc etc, and react accordingly without much thought into it.
While I think stripclubs are not very fun since its just an expensive tease, I know my wife would have NO problem with me going to one. I often joke that if my current line of work doesn't work out I can always open a strip club.
Stripclubs are quite tame compared to what my wife and I do
But as a side note I used to post on a board (no longer with us) where there were long threads by women complaining about their husbands internet porn addiction, and how they were secretly monitoring him etc.
My wife read them and thought the women were all nuts. My wife knows that if I look at someone on the net that doesn't mean I don't love her, or that if I go to a strip club I'm still comming home. Insecurity seems to play a huge part in it.
Also if my wife were going to some male strip club I'd tell her to have a good time.