I'm with *Nikki*...I can fake pretty convincingly. I learned how to after losing my virginity because 1) I was still pretty sore down there and tight, and 2) my partner and I were still figuring out what worked and what didn't...oh and 3) he was too damn insecure to accept the fact that I enjoyed it without an orgasm. I have major control over my vaginal muscles. That is a double-edged sword.
Fortunately, I am now a fountain of orgasms--however, some partners question my orgasm (I tend to have lots of small ones) because it doesn't add up to their expectation of what the female orgasm should be. However, I have assured many of them the small ones I get from sex are far better (and more numerous) than the big singular one I get from masturbation. That usually makes them feel better about the whole thing.
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If I am not better, at least I am different. --Jean-Jacques Rousseau
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