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Tilted Cat Head
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Originally Posted by abaya
^ Yep Cyn, you got it!!  You wouldn't BELIEVE how much we talk on MSN! Sweetpea has a point though, that communication seems to come a little more naturally to us than to some other couples that we know. It's new for us to make part of our discussion "public" (on TFP), but I think you guys add so much and make our relationship that much richer, just because we have other people's experiences to consider when we talk (esp. since we haven't had tons of relationships ourselves). |
it may come more naturally, but it is what people should aspire to...
There a number of couples I know that can really express themselves as individuals without prejudice to their SO.
There's a few pieces to this "natural communication" that I can tell, first is being a bit more comfortable, true and honest with yourself. Second is being able to articulate, vocalize and share that honesty with your SO. Next is the receiver has to also be in that same state.
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