Hektore, your response was really honest and humble... thanks for your whole thought process.
It's threads like this on TFP that make me love this place so much!
However, I didn't understand this quote....
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Originally Posted by Hektore
Ok, so sometimes I hate this place(the TFP) because it makes me explain myself and then I end up doing this whole moral gutcheck thing, very annoying to have to put up with when you get into these types of discussions.
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Were you being sarcastic? I wasn't sure. Say more if you can.
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Originally Posted by Hektore
when I put myself in your shoes, it occured to me: I'm not going to feel comfortable with it the second time, or the third, or ever. My girl and a guy, even if I know and trust him, in the same tent just isn't going to be something I can gloss over. Ever. *inserts foot in mouth* chalk two up against me. *Deep Breath* Looks like I was wrong...Thanks.
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This was a really cool quote. I really appreciated you taking time to walk in both ktspktsp's and my shoes... that's serious empathy, and I never take it for granted when someone does that.
You're right, I may not ever feel comfortable with the idea... but at the same time, I know that ktspktsp and I understand each other, and that we will communicate all the better for this. All that can be done is to live and let live in this situation, and to continue being honest about our feelings.