I just tried the Divacup, after reading about it in Supple Cow's posts. I am really, really excited about it, although I was having a little difficulty. I was fine with inserting it, but I wasn't able to get it to pop open completely. I got some tips from Supple Cow (which I haven't acted on yet), so I *know* I can get it after some more practice.
Since I didn't have it in correctly, I had some discomfort (it was pressing against me in a noticeable way, making me feel like I had to pee, and I also could feel the stem). But the cup caught my blood--I was incredibly thrilled about this and grinning from ear to ear (I am so sick of pads, never used tampons)! Woo hoo!!
Pulling it out wasn't bad at all. Getting a hold of the bottom of the cup and the tip was pretty easy--just make sure your fingers are clean and dry. The suction and vaginal muscle power are strong, but it helps to just relax before pulling. I could sense how to guide the cup as I was pulling it out. After removing it, you just empty it, wash/rinse it with warm water and soap, then re-insert it or pat it dry and put it away. It really only takes a couple of minutes!
I know I will get the Divacup to work with some fiddling and practice, and I'm just so excited about this thing. I wholeheartedly encourage you guys to give it a try!
tiger4053--the Divacup shouldn't be used during intercourse. Yep, that stem will get in the way! There's one or more other products that are OK to use during sex (Instead Softcup is one, I think?).