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Originally Posted by chickentribs
Ouch! I hope hope hope that I never live to hear the words "Not fucking you was the best sex I ever had!!"
On the other hand, I am looking forward to using it myself! That's a riot  |
? Maybe you misunderstood me or I'm misunderstanding you. I didn't literally tell him not fucking you was the best sex I ever had. I just knew that if I gave in to his woos again, it would lead to sex and I wasn't ready to go that route without clear boundaries. We had kissed before but were never in a relationship (I hoped it would lead to one) and then weeks later he gets another girlfriend. I was hurt. So I knew if I played his game again, I probably wouldn't get what I really wanted (a committed, serious relationship) so I just told him "I'm not ready for a relationship right now". He never contacted me again, even when a couple days beforehand, he was giving me lines on how he didn't ever want to lose contact of me because he considers me a good friend. Yeah, whatever. He just wanted some ass.
Rejecting him then was one of the most empowering things I've ever done. I ended the weird power games he had over me since highschool. And I probably ended his weird fascination of me as well... adoring me as the "fantasy" girl whenever his other relationships got too boring. So I believe it was a good move for both our sakes. :P