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NotMVH:
Good first step. The next one is to take the these humiliations and use them to fuel the fires of change, to mold yourself to the image you want yourself to be. Get pissed off. No woman should ever turn you down, and if she does, she isn't worth shit to you and isn't worth even a memory. Having a gun pointed at you must have been a terrible experience, but take that, learn from it, and come back stronger. No shame in what you did--take away from it that death will come for you when it's your time, and you can't control that. So don't fear it. Shower, brush your teeth, keep your misc. hair in line. Smell good. What you can be tomorrow is not boxed in by what you are today. Be the change you want to see.
Good luck to you on your journey, the road is long but the promised land is sweet.
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