I have had this friend for seven years now. We get along really well and share the same views on a lot of things. Whenever she has needed to talk I have been there to listen. Last weekend, I needed her to be there for me as I have been dealing with some things and I really needed support and she acted like it was no big deal and she had to go because she might get lost while driving and she'd call back in a few days. Did she call back? No. I just needed someone to talk to, to reassure me that everything would be all right. And when she finally called back, it was to talk about her problems and didn't even bother to see how I was.
One more story. I don't consider this person a friend anymore. New Year's Eve..my ex-friend and I end up staying overnight at the condo where the party was held. I crashed on the sofa bed along with two other people who happened to be guys. We were all fully clothed and I stayed as close to the edge of the bed as possible. I awake with hands up my shirt belonging to the guy behind me..breathing heavily and grabbing me. I push him away, get up and go get my friend who drove us over. I explain the situation to her, but she doesn't want to leave because she may get to have sex with some random guy again later. So I lay on the freezing cold floor with no pillow and no blanket. I do not talk to her anymore.
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