Well I wanted to thank everyone again for the suggestions, advice, and support.
We talked over this weekend, and we have decided to go our separate ways. I kind of knew it was over. So just to protect myself, I secretly recorded the whole talk/fight. Luckly I did, because she flat out said to me that she purposely did not look for a job just to screw with me finacially. She also said that she was going to take everything she could to fuck with me.
So I told her she better have a good lawyer, and she said it's her word against mine, and since she is a woman with no career now she will get everything she wants.
It was so hard to keep from laughing into her face and show her I was recording everything she said.
I talked to a lawyer at the begining of this week and he heard the tape. He said he is sure we will be able to reach a very reasonable settlement. I hope so...
This really sucks. I mean we have been together for 14 years, and have gone through thick and thin. But to find out this evil side of her was a complete shock.
Lifes a bitch, then you marry one, then you die...
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