grabbing a knife was a spur of the moment thing..but for i knew he could have been a thief, or he could have had a gun or knife. some sort of protection is warranted in this case. its not like someone was watching from the other building..that would have been my fault for not closing the blinds, but for someone to be inches from your window, and a metre from where your having sex, im sure anyone would feel enraged. it IS like having someone in your house.. and my right to privacy and my right to have unhindered sex, without some peeping tom is my right.
like i said, thinking about it now, im glad i didnt find him.. but under certain circumstances, finding someone like that and giving him a good belting is the least you could do.. its been 2.5 years now, and i still get paranoid about the window and having someone there. im forever checking if anyone is there (of course there isnt), but it takes it out on you mentally (and as stated earlier sexually, cos our sex life suffered cos i refused to do anything in the bedroom for a long long while). so i dont think that grabbing a knife was extreme, no! why are the victims portrayed as worse than the accused?
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