ruggerp11

Whoa, I haven't read all of the posts but this is a conversation I've had with a lot of people. I am doing ok too, and a good buddy of mine is obsessed with his 'number.' He will not sleep with girls (bj instead) just because of that. We argue because to me its not an issue, not at all. I've talked to my ex- about it and she thinks that it will become an issue for me when there is someone I really like who has a problem with it. I talked to a girl (well a few) that I know and they don't have a problem with it.

What I said to my ex and my buddy is that since I am a sexual person and sex/intimacy is very important to me that the girl I'm looking for will not have a problem with that. If she has a problem with how many people I have slept with she probably isn't the girl for me.

One of the girls I am talking to said that if you really love/like the person it shouldn't matter.

ok I've read it all now (ok mostly your last post)

WHOA

first of all congratulations on asserting yourself

second of all fuck him and fuck everything hes about. No man should be aggressive like that towards a woman for any reason other than saving his own life. you had every right to slap him and I hope you broke his fucking nose. Blowing his nose on your stuff is just juvenile and petty, shows what hes really about.

Third of all do not accept anyone ever that doesn't accept you as a whole. You are you and be proud of it, we're proud of you Its not something you can change, he (any he) can either accept it or you should find someone who likes all of you.

Good luck!

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