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Just because a man doesn't win custody, doesnt mean that he is shoved out of the children's lives, no matter how 'evil' the woman is. Maybe he needs to get over himself a little bit, and be concerned about his children, and not have it matter where the children are living, a nd making quality of the time he does spend with them matter.
Throwing up a bunch of pretty much meaningless statistics does nothing to help the cause of the inequities of child custody cases, because they are just that... statistics... you don't know the context.
I've seen too many divorces where children become the pawn in it and used to do nothing more than hurt the other person. IF both parents actually were interested inthebest interest of the child and not t heir own precious self interests, they would not fight for 100 percent custody, unless the other parent was completely irresponsible (ie crack whore) They loved each other and respected each other enoughonce to have a child - that love and respect, directed at t he child should be used in the divorce.
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