I've had a not really similar expierence at all, but it's a little bit like yours.
A few weeks ago my boyfriend mentioned a camping trip brought up by a fellow employee. When I asked who he replied *insert female name here* Now, my initial reaction was anger, I know how awesome my boyfriend is, most other people do too. Girls flirt with him, I accept that, as long as he doesn't reciporcate. The wheels were turning in my head and I wasn't too happy about that.
After a while, he said a group of them were going, no one would be sleeping in the same tent and now it's fine with me. However, if he was to go with just this one lady, he shouldn't expect to come back home to me.
I'm a little old fashioned in my views about relationships, it's okay to have same sex friends, but if you want to keep me around you have to keep them at a level that doesn't make me question.
Anyways, that's just my opinion.
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