You two are really impressive. I thought Q and I communicated well! As a million people have said, your feelings are definitely valid, as are his, actually.
If it had been me, I would have said that the situation as it stood (just those two, and one mattress) made me uncomfortable for the high level of intimacy. If there were TWO mattresses and/or three people, I would be much more comfortable.
I'm sorry we ruined it a bit for ktspktsp, but I am so happy for you both that you can talk things out. There will be other camping trips.
Oh, and naive she might be... but she might not be either. I would agree that you should examine her motives in the future quite carefully. We women can be trickier even than what we ourselves imagine.
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