Forgetting for one second that people have different limits, I try to do this when considering actions.
Would I like it if my girlfriend did it to some other guy? (I don't have a gf but a good strategy is...do onto others as they would do onto you).
Me?? I would not like it if my significant other was tying or being tied down by some other dude. Not cool.
I guess that is something you might use in the future, with the next gf. I'm proud of you for telling her the truth, but it might be better to end things before getting physical with another woman.
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Patriotism means being loyal to your country all the time and to its government when it deserves it.
--Mark Twain
Do What makes you happy
--Me
BUT!
"Happiness is the absence of the striving for happiness" - Chuang-Tzu
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