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hey there.i just recently went for a smear myself.yes they do detect std's but its more of a way to check if theres anything wrong with your womb, if ther are any abnormalities.the other peeps are right and you have the right idea.dont treat her like theres anything wrong with her.keep reassuring her that things will be fine.and just be there for her.because i know if my bf hadnt been the way he was when i came back from the doctor i most probably would have died.but he was supportive and he showed me that he cared.
also, you cant harm her by having sex.thats what your bodys were made for.just be gentle and let her know that you doing it because you want to not because of an obligation.
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